Bondage Sex Toy Myths Article

For those that have never tried bondage sex play and want to give it a go, fear of the unknown is the biggest obstacle in the way. Using compassion and understanding when introducing bondage play it will most likely be accepted. Remember to never bring out your bondage toy or restrain anyone during sexual play without prior permission. Communication is so very important.

When bringing bondage sex play into your lovemaking you should never be offensive in your remarks like, “don’t do this” and “don’t do that” or “I don’t like it when you do this”, etc. They can be very hurtful and the relationship is strained.

Be sure the time is right when discussing bondage sex. Have plenty of free time and no demanding. Sex is not an easy topic to talk about and make sure you and your partner have the time to sit down and express your feelings, concerns and the excitement you hope to achieve. A time when you are both relaxed and feeling open is important as well. Communication, communication is so important.

If you are new to bondage toys and their use you might want to try an adult movie that features bondage play. There are sex toy catalogues, on line shopping, videos etc, that can add to your knowledge. Choosing your sex toys together is a fun and exciting way to start. Being relaxed and that most crucial part, “communication”, are very important parts of a happy and exciting sexual relationship.

When using restraint sex toys safety is most important and your partner should feel comfortable and at ease in the position that he/she is restrained in. If something don’t feel right or is uncomfortable never hesitate to let your partner know. It’s good to make sure that the restraint toys you are using is safely secured and your partner is not leaning up or lying against anything that may be irritating or painful. Communication is always key.

Never tie anything around the neck and always make sure your partner’s nose and mouth are able to take in air, especially for those using masks and gag items. Be sure when tying things around the wrists and genitals that they are secure but not cutting off the blood circulation. Don’t leave your partners arms or legs suspended up in the air too long, good blood circulation is very important especially when play is going to last a long time.

One should never leave their partner alone when being restrained and always make sure all your bondage gear can be removed quickly in case of an emergency. Handcuffs are one of the most popular bondage sex toy, make sure they are not fit to tight around your partners skin and the keys is always accessible. Remember, safe sex is fun sex.

In bondage sex toy play it is always a good idea for you and your partner to have a “safe word” which means all play is to stop. If being gagged or unable to speak, a snapping of the fingers, humming, or toe tapping etc. Is a way to let your partner know to stop. Always keep in mind, communication, communication, communication which can make for very exciting sexual gratification in BDSM.

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